Today’s Oracle takes us to the Capricorn weekly of March 18, 2006
You are discovering what is important to you. True, this is an ongoing process and those who think it’s over have gone to sleep. You of all people know that this world drives a hard bargain and there are few people around who are willing to provide assistance and resources even for people who are struggling the most. There is a belief that we need to let others learn their lessons, because, more often than not, that’s what our parents taught us. But you are of a different generation. You have different values. And fortunately for everyone, you remain in a position to help.
(The Daily Oracle is a random selection from one of 10,000 Eric Francis horoscopes. New horoscopes by Eric are published weekly plus twice a month in Planet Waves Astrology News and Planet Waves Light. The Oracle itself is a divination tool available to subscribers to either of these services.)

Consider your motives, and the agenda of the other person. Their agenda is best discerned by their actions going back a year or two.
Thanks for this timely advise.
I am exactly in the same dilemma right now. stand back and watch or help?
thanks