Every Sexual & Emotional Orientation is Different

We at this conference know that no two people have the same sexual or relational orientation; and I hold out the faith that everyone else is figuring out the same thing. In fact, I am sure you’ve figured it out at least five times that you don’t fit in any “normal” relationship box, as many times as you’ve tried. That box you can’t cram yourself into might be suburban marriage and it might be urban dating. I am certain there are things that you know about yourself that you know are right and true, but are concerned that other people don’t think are right. And of course you have felt the enormous pressure to conform: to get married when you don’t want to, to ignore your bi tendencies, to conceal your sexual history from a partner.