Oh thanks folks! So sweet of you to welcome me and congratulate me. I really appreciate it.
cosmicmama – I add more “congratulations” to the loads of it coming your way; both for your orgasmic state – and also for this new part of your Finding Self journey!
@ cosmicmama thanks for sharing that. honestly, i am so loving the energy of people sharing their insides. it’s always been my world and i have felt like an alien. but these days… not so much feeling like an alien.
i’m so happy for you.
cosmicmama:
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!
🙂 yay!
and welcome to the blog…
I have to say that I SO appreciate this posting today, as last night WAS THE VERY FIRST TIME in my 34 YEARS!!!! that I have had an orgasm. It helps that it is the first time I have a female lover. Being married to a man for 5 years, and suffering through the awkwardness on many levels of our fit, I am FINALLY finding myself and my sexual freedom.
It also helps that my lady lover is sensitive to my experience and is able to say exactly the right things to me that I need to hear. Last night, it was that “orgasm does not happen in your head. You don’t have to think about it. It just happens. And it’s not something to strive for. It’s not the pleasure, it’s just the release. Just focus on the pleasure and where it is happening in your body, and breath… stay with it.”
That was all I needed to hear to send me over the edge FOR THE VERY FIRST TIME!!!
As you can tell, I’m excited about it. It feels like the beginning of a whole new me.
And once again, it is in amazing synchronicity with the postings on this site. THANK you, THANK you, THANK you!
Oh thanks folks! So sweet of you to welcome me and congratulate me. I really appreciate it.
cosmicmama – I add more “congratulations” to the loads of it coming your way; both for your orgasmic state – and also for this new part of your Finding Self journey!
@ cosmicmama thanks for sharing that. honestly, i am so loving the energy of people sharing their insides. it’s always been my world and i have felt like an alien. but these days… not so much feeling like an alien.
i’m so happy for you.
cosmicmama:
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!
🙂 yay!
and welcome to the blog…
I have to say that I SO appreciate this posting today, as last night WAS THE VERY FIRST TIME in my 34 YEARS!!!! that I have had an orgasm. It helps that it is the first time I have a female lover. Being married to a man for 5 years, and suffering through the awkwardness on many levels of our fit, I am FINALLY finding myself and my sexual freedom.
It also helps that my lady lover is sensitive to my experience and is able to say exactly the right things to me that I need to hear. Last night, it was that “orgasm does not happen in your head. You don’t have to think about it. It just happens. And it’s not something to strive for. It’s not the pleasure, it’s just the release. Just focus on the pleasure and where it is happening in your body, and breath… stay with it.”
That was all I needed to hear to send me over the edge FOR THE VERY FIRST TIME!!!
As you can tell, I’m excited about it. It feels like the beginning of a whole new me.
And once again, it is in amazing synchronicity with the postings on this site. THANK you, THANK you, THANK you!
The book “Bonk” is a great read, also.
🙂 I’ve Always Loved This One!!! 🙂