{"id":78657,"date":"2014-08-09T14:00:22","date_gmt":"2014-08-09T18:00:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/?p=78657"},"modified":"2014-08-08T16:58:47","modified_gmt":"2014-08-08T20:58:47","slug":"enjoying-myself-at-myself-the-kinky-play-party","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/polyamory\/enjoying-myself-at-myself-the-kinky-play-party\/","title":{"rendered":"Enjoying Myself at \u201cMyself!\u201d, the kinky play party"},"content":{"rendered":"

Editor’s Note: With the Full Moon amping up relationship energy and planets clustered in passionate Scorpio and Leo, it seems like perfect timing for this steamy post by SeattlePolyChick<\/a> about a first “sexy type” date with a new partner at a kink play party. Her posts appear on her own blog, plus over at lifeontheswingset.com<\/a>. — Amanda<\/em><\/p>\n

By SeattlePolyChick<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

Sweetnesses — If you date or love me or just don\u2019t wanna read about sexy times with others, skip this one. Muah!<\/p>\n

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I attended Myself! for the first time tonight with Boss, on our first ever play date. I got nervous beforehand and did this thing I often do before a big date. I didn\u2019t want to go. It\u2019s not that I actually don\u2019t want to go. It\u2019s that I get nervous. It occurs especially when it\u2019s a first time “sexy type” date. I get all excited and look forward the date, and then all of a sudden it\u2019s here and I feel like there is pressure and I don\u2019t want to go because \u201cWhat did I do? Setting an expectation for sex!?\u201d I\u2019m a weirdo. <\/p>\n

I went and was happy to go, but on the way there I was nervous. I\u2019ve talked to Boss quite a bit though and I knew I actually wanted to go and that whatever happened it\u2019d be a good time. He seems like a genuinely good person and I\u2019m quite sure it would have been no problem at all if I\u2019d said I didn\u2019t feel like having sex. Feeling like I could say no at any time conversely made me want to have sex again. Like I said, I\u2019m a weirdo.<\/p>\n

The Myself party is a masturbation-friendly party that has morphed into this really cool party with lots of things and a huge attendance. It may be one of my favorites. It\u2019s open to members and non-members and it\u2019s relatively cheap, and the atmosphere is pretty hot. There are rules in place to make people feel safe and it\u2019s more open than most of the parties I\u2019ve been to at the kink club. <\/p>\n

Pretty much anything the club allows is allowed and a few things are allowed that seem unique to this party. First, there are lots of men and lots of men masturbating. This is not allowed at most parties. I loved that! It\u2019s funny how comfortable it made me feel to have men undressed and touching themselves, watching people play. They were just somehow\u2026 more vulnerable or not at all predatory in this way. They were just appreciators and that was less intimidating. I really liked it. It made me very comfortable to be naked and to play around them with them in various stages of undress and\/or masturbating. It appealed to my exhibitionist and voyeur streaks.<\/p>\n

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Sometimes the men were invited to take part of the festivities or scenes but party-goers didn\u2019t have to have any interaction at all if they didn\u2019t want it. People playing could wear arm bands that indicated if they wanted to be approached or asked and it seemed people didn\u2019t ask much without the arm band. There were all kinds of people.. kinky and vanilla, straight and gay and queer young and old and just… everything. This too was very comfortable. There were all kinds of bodies and orientations and such.<\/p>\n

It was pretty damn hot. There were places in back to play and be watched or interacted with as people chose and places in the midst of the crowd on the main floor to put on a show. There were chairs to watch different areas and room to mill about and see what struck your fancy. There was gay and straight porn and plenty of supplies to be safe and contain messes if you made any.<\/p>\n

Boss and I said greetings to various people and then sat off to the side for a bit. We wandered the back room and the main floor and took in the sights and settled into conversation in our corner. At one point I laughed that we were talking about such everyday stuff while a couple writhed naked 5 feet from us and there were people watching and fucking and masturbating and spanking all around us. We went in back again after a bit and watched a lovely girl in bliss with a few men just touching her and Boss and I went around to the other side. He asked if I\u2019d like to get up into the swing. Clothed, I did.<\/p>\n

We made out and got nice and heated. We played a little with a few things he\u2019d brought and I really enjoyed the chemistry I keep noticing with him. The only real awkwardness for me was the kissing. I don\u2019t know his kisses yet and wasn\u2019t as smooth moving with him in this way. Quickly though that was overcome. He was playful and fun and seriously hot in turns. I liked the entire interaction leading up to and including the yummy sex.<\/p>\n

By the time I took off my shirt in the swing with a tiny group of men watching I was so eager to fuck Boss that I didn\u2019t care how I looked and I was very comfortable in the gaze of those around us and my new lover. I\u2019m still me, so I was aware that my position was likely not the most flattering, and I could not have cared less. I was sensation.<\/p>\n

The men watching and reacting and responding with me, and the things they said made me feel beautiful and powerful. I loved the sounds they made while I sucked Boss\u2019s cock, with him taking a turn in the swing. Again, I don\u2019t know his rhythms yet or his tells, and I was trying to excite him but not make him cum. I wanted to fuck him. So I think it wasn\u2019t my best head. I\u2019m generally very good at head. It\u2019s kinda my thing. I once had a man who hated me tell me that other than sucking cock like a demon I was a worthless human being. <\/p>\n

I joked with Boss later that I\u2019d do better and he was sweetly reassuring that it had been fine. I scoffed. I\u2019m a lot of things, but just \u201cfine\u201d at giving head isn\u2019t generally one of them. He\u2019s a challenge, but I love a challenge. I will do better. I know I can do better.<\/p>\n

I was in turns turned-over to him and in other turns aggressively responding, taking what I wanted. I growled I think when when he moved harder and when I came, flooding. It was my first ever time in a sex swing and I am a fan. He was having a little difficulty letting go, with the crowd and the heat I think, but I have to admit I wasn\u2019t complaining. I definitely reaped the benefits. One of the men watching announced he was close while Boss and I fucked and I asked the man to cum for me. I think he loved that. I had been afraid to look too much at those watching. It was my first time with Boss and I wanted to give him his due attention, but also it\u2019s that I didn\u2019t know where the line was.<\/p>\n

After a bit, Boss and I moved out of the swing and over to a stack of futons, where he lay back and let me play. It turns me on to have such free reign, so I hope he gives it up again sometime. I asked if I could ride him and he happily agreed. I got to watch some of the others more this time, seeing their response, and hearing those I could not see behind me. It\u2019s an incredible feeling to experience the sensations I did and to feel the excitement of those watching. It spurred me on. I love to be watched when I\u2019m that turned on and it was hotter to so clearly see the effect. After a bit Boss took over and we finished, too hot to cuddle for a bit, but good for petting.<\/p>\n

We relaxed and calmed, watching a women on the next bed taking all comers. Her responses and the excitement of the men were hot. I did not stir though. I had been fucked into satiety. After a bit of watching it wasn\u2019t hard to talk me into dessert nearby. We got dressed and watched things for a while and left to two of the men who\u2019d watched us for a while giving the thumbs up, an approval from afar.<\/p>\n

We went to a Tolouse Petit and didn\u2019t get dessert, enjoying the immense happy hour instead. I have to admit the cheese plate was a stand out. There was a lovely assortment of cheeses and this fruit compote kind of thing that tasted like mulled wine, served with crostini and nuts. We talked music and had little pettings and I felt a little aglow. This here is where my policy of sleeping with only those I like comes in very handy. It was nice to chill in afterglow with a very cool person I like spending time with, even when he\u2019s not naked.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know when I\u2019m seeing him again, but I know I\u2019d like to.<\/p>\n

Grin.<\/p>\n

He said near the end of everything that this was a couple of years in the making, and it was. Funny. He was in the first few people I messaged with back when I first joined OKC. I liked him then and life had intruded. Turns out all the advice about being cool when things don\u2019t happen is pretty accurate. I don\u2019t remember his response, but I remember thinking… wow… that\u2019s a classy way to respond. Then, when I met him again at the club just a while ago and thought he was cute and fun to talk to, there was no weirdness.<\/p>\n

God it\u2019s fun to have had an exciting new little adventure with an excitingly new lover.<\/p>\n

Yawn. So tired. So worth it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Editor’s Note: With the Full Moon amping up relationship energy and planets clustered in passionate Scorpio and Leo, it seems like perfect timing for this steamy post by SeattlePolyChick about a first “sexy type” date with a new partner at a kink play party. Her posts appear on her own blog, plus over at lifeontheswingset.com. … Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7221,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"generate_page_header":""},"categories":[207],"tags":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78657"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7221"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=78657"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78657\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=78657"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=78657"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=78657"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}