{"id":54394,"date":"2012-03-13T16:47:42","date_gmt":"2012-03-13T20:47:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/?p=54394"},"modified":"2012-03-14T16:09:14","modified_gmt":"2012-03-14T20:09:14","slug":"a-little-taste-of-the-second-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/daily-astrology\/a-little-taste-of-the-second-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"A Little Taste of &#8216;The Second Sex&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Excerpted from <em>The Second Sex<\/em> by Simone de Beauvoir (original translation)  <\/p>\n<p>I love and adore Simone. She is all about witnessing and progress.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\nLet us not forget that our lack of imagination always depopulates the future; for us it is only an abstraction; each one of us secretly deplores the absence there of the one who was himself. But the humanity of tomorrow will be living in its flesh and in its conscious liberty; that time will be its present and it will in turn prefer it. New relations of flesh and sentiment of which we have no conception will arise between the sexes; already, indeed, there have appeared between men and women friendships, rivalries, complicities, comradeships \u2013 chaste or sensual \u2013 which past centuries could not have conceived. To mention one point, nothing could seem more debatable than the opinion that dooms the new world to uniformity and hence to boredom. I fail to see that this present world is free from boredom or that liberty ever creates uniformity.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>To begin with, there will always be certain differences between man and woman; her eroticism, and therefore her sexual world, have a special form of their own and therefore cannot fail to engender a sensuality, a sensitivity, of a special nature. This means that her relations to her own body, to that of the male, to the child, will never be identical with those the male bears to his own body, to that of the female, and to the child; those who make much of \u2018equality in difference\u2019 could not with good grace refuse to grant me the possible existence of differences in equality. Then again, it is institutions that create uniformity. Young and pretty, the slaves of the harem are always the same in the sultan\u2019s embrace; Christianity gave eroticism its savour of sin and legend when it endowed the human female with a soul; if society restores her sovereign individuality to woman, it will not thereby destroy the power of love\u2019s embrace to move the heart.<\/p>\n<p>It is nonsense to assert that revelry, vice, ecstasy, passion, would become impossible if man and woman were equal in concrete matters; the contradictions that put the flesh in opposition to the spirit, the instant to time, the swoon of immanence to the challenge of transcendence, the absolute of pleasure to the nothingness of forgetting, will never be resolved; in sexuality will always be materialised the tension, the anguish, the joy, the frustration, and the triumph of existence. To emancipate woman is to refuse to confine her to the relations she bears to man, not to deny them to her; let her have her independent existence and she will continue none the less to exist for him also: mutually recognising each other as subject, each will yet remain for the other an other. The reciprocity of their relations will not do away with the miracles \u2013 desire, possession, love, dream, adventure \u2013 worked by the division of human beings into two separate categories; and the words that move us \u2013 giving, conquering, uniting \u2013 will not lose their meaning. On the contrary, when we abolish the slavery of half of humanity, together with the whole system of hypocrisy that it implies, then the \u2018division\u2019 of humanity will reveal its genuine significance and the human couple will find its true form. \u2018The direct, natural, necessary relation of human creatures is the<em> relation of man to woman<\/em>,\u2019 Marx has said. \u2018The nature of this relation determines to what point man himself is to be considered as a <em>generic<\/em> being, as mankind; the relation of man to woman is the most <em>natural<\/em> relation of human being to human being. By it is shown, therefore, to what point the natural behaviour of man has become human or to what point the human being has become his natural being, to what point his human nature has become <em>his nature<\/em>.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>The case could not be better stated. It is for man to establish the reign of liberty in the midst of the world of the given. To gain the supreme victory, it is necessary, for one thing, that by and through their natural differentiation men and women unequivocally affirm their brotherhood.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Excerpted from The Second Sex by Simone de Beauvoir (original translation) I love and adore Simone. She is all about witnessing and progress. 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