{"id":31285,"date":"2010-11-25T15:20:25","date_gmt":"2010-11-25T20:20:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/?p=31285"},"modified":"2010-11-25T15:52:42","modified_gmt":"2010-11-25T20:52:42","slug":"mindfulness-and-thanksgiving","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/daily-astrology\/mindfulness-and-thanksgiving\/","title":{"rendered":"Mindfulness, and Thanksgiving"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m one of those people for whom every day is Thanksgiving. It&#8217;s not that I don&#8217;t complain, though I&#8217;m learning there are much better things I can do with my creativity (and improving the world is an important aspect of karma yoga). It&#8217;s that I&#8217;ve noticed my natural tendency to appreciate the community around me, my level of physical comfort, and the privileges I have.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_31286\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-31286\" style=\"width: 365px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/planetwaves.net\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/375+web_desk_1231.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/planetwaves.net\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/375+web_desk_1231.jpg?resize=375%2C249&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" title=\"375+web_desk_1231\" width=\"375\" height=\"249\" class=\"size-full wp-image-31286\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/planetwaves.net\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/375+web_desk_1231.jpg?w=375&amp;ssl=1 375w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/planetwaves.net\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/375+web_desk_1231.jpg?resize=300%2C199&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 375px) 100vw, 375px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-31286\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">My desk in Blue Studio, a place devoted to creativity, pleasure and bookkeeping. Photo by Eric. Yellow coffee cup is Dominick's -- I have cup borrowing privileges so we save paper.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I mean, simple things. I can afford to take the runaway cat who&#8217;s come to live on my porch to the vet. I can afford to eat any food that I want. My business does well enough that I can afford to have a lot of help, and I&#8217;m grateful to be able to offer that help back to you as this place of refuge. I am grateful that all of us, the family of people around me, who offer our work to you do it for some reason other than getting paid. (It&#8217;s fabulous to get paid, but there are better and more fulfilling ways to motivate ourselves.)<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m grateful every time I throw the bolt lock on my front door and set a little boundary between me and the world. I&#8217;m grateful when I feel so exposed to the universe that it&#8217;s like my apartment has no ceiling. I&#8217;m grateful that I have a conscience and that I use it every time I make a decision. I am grateful to have a natural respect for the truth, and the gift to allow that to be the only thing that matters.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t have to &#8216;make myself&#8217; think about these things; it&#8217;s a matter of being mindful, and understanding what nourishes and sustains me. And I&#8217;m grateful that I&#8217;m not somebody who has to &#8216;do good&#8217; but rather someone who understands that my existence is a benefit to the world (a fact I learned in therapy), which is a great purpose to embrace: it&#8217;s a useful kind of self-esteem. I understand that in any situation I find myself, I am the person who has the power to be helpful; embracing that purpose as a conscious act, I don&#8217;t have to worry so much about who I might hurt, because that&#8217;s not my role. I am grateful that I know my limits and that I don&#8217;t have to do everything.<\/p>\n<p>I love things like clean clothes and computers that work; I love lenses that are the product of a century of craftsmanship that help me create the photo I see in my mind, which I can then share with you. I am grateful for everyone who shows up in my studio, takes off their clothes, invites me to take pictures &#8212; and has a natural experience of life, of playing, of freedom.<\/p>\n<p>I am grateful for Marshall McLuhan, who told me when I was a kid that all you need is a typewriter and a copy machine and you&#8217;re a publisher. <\/p>\n<p>I am grateful to my parents who despite everything gave me the basic tools that I need to stand up in the world, and to the world. I am grateful to every therapist and practitioner and author and artist who helped me get past the damage of my childhood and be a full-grown adult, capable of spontaneous love, creativity and community. Every time I share my knowledge with you, I remember my teachers, and I am grateful to be tossing another pebble into the lake of dharma, letting the ripples reach out to every shore.<\/p>\n<p>This stuff is simple. <\/p>\n<p>Happy Thanksgiving!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m one of those people for whom every day is Thanksgiving. It&#8217;s not that I don&#8217;t complain, though I&#8217;m learning there are much better things I can do with my creativity (and improving the world is an important aspect of karma yoga). It&#8217;s that I&#8217;ve noticed my natural tendency to appreciate the community around me, &#8230; <a title=\"Mindfulness, and Thanksgiving\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/daily-astrology\/mindfulness-and-thanksgiving\/\" aria-label=\"More on Mindfulness, and Thanksgiving\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"generate_page_header":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31285"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31285"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/31285\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=31285"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=31285"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=31285"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}