{"id":27768,"date":"2010-08-13T12:59:39","date_gmt":"2010-08-13T17:59:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/?p=27768"},"modified":"2010-08-13T16:00:03","modified_gmt":"2010-08-13T21:00:03","slug":"madame-arcatis-eric-francis-interview-astrology-future-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/planetwaves.net\/news\/daily-astrology\/madame-arcatis-eric-francis-interview-astrology-future-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"Madame Arcati&#8217;s Eric Francis Interview: Astrology &#038; Future Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong>Eric&#8217;s Introduction<\/strong> &#8212; Earlier this year, I was researching Patric Walker, one of the people who inspired me to become an astrologer. There is very little on the Net about Patric (who died in 1995), but I found someone who knew him &#8212; Madame Arcati, a British clairvoyant and gossip columnist. Madame has an AOL address so I put her into my AIM chat system and over the next couple of months (feeling pretty bold about it) I chatted her up every now and then. She took an interest in my work and, soon after, asked if I would do an interview for her readers. This is a reprint of that interview, which ran in the spring of 2010. &#8211;efc<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>By Madame Arcati<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Eric Francis is one of the world&#8217;s  most influential astrologers &#8211; as well as an award-winning investigative  reporter. A quarter of a million people follow his astrology\u00a0websites  Planet Waves and Cosmic Confidential\u00a0every month (links below), and his  periodic cover\u00a0sun sign horoscopes in the <em>Daily Mail<\/em> and  many\u00a0other publications\u00a0have reached far larger audiences worldwide.  Based in New York, Eric talks to Madame Arcati about his stargazing work  &#8211; <em>and<\/em> his belief that self-sex &#8211; or masturbation &#8211; has an  important future role to play in building emotionally\u00a0healthier  relationships.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Eric Francis! Astrologer  extraordinaire! Tell us where you live, the most interesting vista from  your home and how many hours a day you work.<\/strong><\/p>\n<figure style=\"width: 165px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Eric Francis. Photo by Kristos Katzios on Mykonos.\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_BCMWJGLtWog\/S87QJRhxP6I\/AAAAAAAAB3Q\/IHzVn7IB53M\/s1600\/225_eric_by_kristos_DSCF0057.jpg?resize=175%2C291&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Eric Francis. Photo by Kristos Katzios on Mykonos.\" width=\"175\" height=\"291\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Eric Francis. Photo by Kristos Katzios on Mykonos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I live in the world. Since 1998 I\u2019ve written Planet Waves from about a  dozen countries and lived long-term in half of them, most recently  Belgium. I grew up in Brooklyn and I now make home in Kingston, New  York. It\u2019s a mountain town that\u2019s the old capital of New York State, and  it\u2019s about two hours driving time north of New York City. It was burned  down by the Brits in 1777 and I don\u2019t think the locals have recovered.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m a restless person and I need a state of continuous change, although  my Cancer ascendant wants familiarity and stability. Part of how I  handle that is when I\u2019m not traveling, I live and work between two  different environments. I\u2019ll describe the view from both. My apartment  is on an ordinary city street but off the back porch is what looks like a  rolling estate that\u2019s been divided into backyards. It\u2019s quiet and it  feels like the country and has a secluded feeling. One cold night I  found a possum on my back porch, eating the food I leave for my phantom  cat.<\/p>\n<p>My photo studio is a few blocks away, located in a business district  that\u2019s within the original 900-foot square bounds of a \u2018stockade\u2019 built  by the Dutch in the 1600s to keep out the Indians. There, I live  surrounded by my own artwork; that is the main vista. From one of my  studio windows, I look out over a very old intersection in the middle of  what appears for all the world to be an idyllic American small town. In  some ways it is.<\/p>\n<p>Most of the time I work about 12 hours a day, and depending on the time  of year, that can go on five or six days a week. I\u2019m a writer by  profession but it happens that writing is also one of my passions.  Photography is another, and when I\u2019m involved in those things the  creative aspect is more noticeable than the work aspect.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><strong>I first came across you when you covered for the <em>Daily Mail&#8217;s<\/em> Jonathan Cainer &#8212; he obviously thinks very highly of you &#8212; and then I  started reading your astrology websites Cosmic Confidential, Planet  Waves and other sites. I understand the late Patric Walker inspired you  to be an astrologer &#8212; how did he do that and was he the best ever?<\/strong><\/p>\n<figure style=\"width: 235px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Photo by Danielle Voiron in Paris\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_BCMWJGLtWog\/S87phXxvFEI\/AAAAAAAAB3Y\/bzzBJW3Kuw0\/s1600\/235_eric_2866b_web.jpg?resize=245%2C368&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Photo by Danielle Voiron in Paris\" width=\"245\" height=\"368\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo by Danielle Voiron in Paris<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Jonathan has been extremely kind to me. If I told some of the stories of  his generosity you might not believe them, though understating things  considerably, he&#8217;s a mensch &#8212; Yiddish for authentic human being. I have  never known someone with such fame and acclaim to provide so many  opportunities for young people to show their talent and get a solid  start. Truly, we need more of this in the world and Jon is an excellent  example of standing up for who and what you believe in.<\/p>\n<p>As for someone else who previously wrote for the <em>Mail<\/em> &#8212; I knew about astrology for a long time before the Patric Walker horoscope (published locally in the <em>NY Post<\/em>)  got my attention and proved that astrology is real. Patric spoke to me,  and he spoke to the millions; he had that gift, though I think I heard  him with unusual depth judging from the influence he had on my life. I  followed his writing every day for a couple of years, astonished. I  noticed he mentioned the positions of the planets in his  interpretations; Patric would always leave his margin notes in the  column. So over the years, I was thinking about the cosmos, using my  daily horoscope as an ephemeris. Then one day I reached the boiling  point and I had to figure out how he did it; so I bought an ephemeris  and studied his column every night.<\/p>\n<p>Patric was amazing. I think of him as the cosmic voice of reason. Part  of what you do as a newspaper astrologer is you take up the voice of the  cosmic order and you let it speak through you. Patric could to this  beautifully, with true Libran elegance, yet he had the other part of  Libra, which is a sense of justice. The precision of his timing and his  ability to describe theme would evoke the sense that he was translating  information from another realm, personally for you. He was always  relevant, and never trivial. That was the hallmark of his column. I  found this so compelling that I had to peer behind the veil of astrology  and learn how to do it. In this way, Patric was the first astrologer I  consciously adopted as a teacher. He is still my teacher today.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Unusually, you&#8217;re an investigative reporter and you&#8217;ve written stories on Monsanto, General Electric, etc., for <em>The New York Times<\/em>, the <em>Village Voice<\/em>, <em>Sierra<\/em> magazine and <em>The Ecologist<\/em>. How did friends and family react to your career change? Did it affect your credibility as a journalist?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Investigative reporting and astrology writing have more in common than  most people would imagine. For example, you have to sift through vast  amounts of data and arrive at a fairly succinct description of the  world. It\u2019s necessary to write about complex matters in a way that  people understand. Both call on the writer to be fair and broad-minded.  The astrology I do requires the ability to understand science  (particularly the subtle points of astronomy), and investigative  journalism has helped greatly with that.<\/p>\n<p>That said, there are important differences. At the time I took up  astrology, I was ready to let go of the kind of hard-edged journalism I  had been doing my whole adult life. I wanted to do something more  personally meaningful to people on the human dimension. This required a  deep commitment to change, since I had invested so many years and so  much focus in my journalism career. I started at about 14 and was 30 at  the time astrology called me. I was an up and coming rock star  investigative reporter, handling serious issues and starting to get  international attention. I could have gone anywhere I wanted from there,  within that profession. Yet I chose something else, with full  awareness.<\/p>\n<figure style=\"width: 265px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Photo by Kristos Katzios on Mykonos\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_BCMWJGLtWog\/S87p2SxTDgI\/AAAAAAAAB3g\/TumXnjgB-_M\/s1600\/275_eric_by_kristos_DSCF0107.jpg?resize=275%2C393&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Photo by Kristos Katzios on Mykonos\" width=\"275\" height=\"393\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo by Kristos Katzios on Mykonos<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I\u2019m sure it was confounding to people who had experienced me as someone  so devoted to supposedly objective truth, and exposing the frauds of  science, to take up something that is widely perceived to be a fraud. My  feeling was, people might think that this reflects poorly on my  journalistic credibility, but my journalistic credibility ought to be  what reflects a positive light on astrology. I use my background to my  advantage, if among skeptics.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How long did it take before you started practising as an astrologer? And what&#8217;s your star sign?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>After seven years of studying <em>A Course in Miracles<\/em>, and the  other esoteric arts, I bought my first ephemeris on my birthday in March  1994. By April 1995 I was the author of an astrology column, in a  magazine called <em>Free Time<\/em>. I am still writing that column  today. I credit learning astrology so fast to the fact that I began  writing about it for an audience early in my studies. I am a Pisces,  though Aquarius is very strong in my chart. I have a Cancer ascendant,  plenty of Chiron and a nice aspect between Mercury and Neptune.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What makes a good astrologer? Predictive ability? Most people just want to know about the future don&#8217;t they?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I think what makes a good astrologer is to speak to people in a way  people can relate to. You can be a great technical astrologer but if you  cannot relate to people as people, what good is that? It\u2019s vitally  important to be judicious with astrology, and not the kind who thinks  it\u2019s about power. It\u2019s true that people tend to have a future  orientation, but I have noticed that this is often a distraction from  their curiosity about themselves. I view my role as an astrologer as  helping people stoke their self-inquiry, and to use the information  coming from their chart to create the future rather than \u2018have it  happen\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>The problem is not that astrology is not capable of being used as a  predictive tool, in certain hands; in my view it\u2019s that prediction  narrows the potential of the future when we can just as easily open up  the door to better options. We can use the chart to see and create  options for choice, rather than to pre-dictate.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Have you made a prediction about a  world event you&#8217;d like to tell us about, or make one? Britain is in the  throes of a general election&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Once in the summer of 1996, I was writing an article, and I saw that  Chiron was about to go over the North Node in Libra. I thought: this  looks like it has the potential for alien contact. I don\u2019t usually write  about alien contact and truthfully, it seemed a little out-there. So I  took that statement out of the column! Then that month, Nasa called a  press conference to announce for the first time they felt they had  proof-positive of life on another planet \u2014 bacteria found in a Mars rock  that had landed on Earth. I know this is not ET or Mr Spock, but it was  certainly on theme. After that I learned to trust my perception and be  bolder in my writing.<\/p>\n<p>As a result of that policy, some years later I inadvertently predicted  an earthquake the day of that horrendous quake in Haiti. That said, I do  my best to avoid prediction and rather prefer to present my readers  with a map of the world, which shows us some of the better routes we can  take to the future. As for England: I am less concerned about this one  election and more concerned about the fear and narrowness that I see  gathering on your island, a place I hold dear to my heart.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I may be wrong on this, but why do so  many professional astrologers have such disastrous love lives? Patric  pined for the love of his life, actor Richard Chamberlain, and I\u00a0hardly  know of\u00a0a stargazer who does not seem afflicted in the emotional  department. (This is one way of asking you about your sex life, btw).<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know enough to confirm that astrologers go through what you say,  disproportionately from the rest of the population. But let\u2019s imagine  that\u2019s true for a moment. I could see, and I\u2019ve experienced, a few  reasons why. We are constantly exposed to people&#8217;s relationship  troubles. They\u2019re why most people come to astrologers, and frankly we do  a lot of post-mortems on failed love affairs. And I think there are  risks, to astrologers, in facing too much of this day-in and day-out for  years. Also, astrologers tend to be exceedingly independent people.  There are not a lot of relationship modalities that offer both intimacy  and independence.<\/p>\n<figure style=\"width: 145px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Photo by Danielle Voiron in Paris\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_BCMWJGLtWog\/S87qdNZcOeI\/AAAAAAAAB3w\/W_JDdwcDgdY\/s1600\/eric_by_dani_redu.jpg?resize=155%2C233&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Photo by Danielle Voiron in Paris\" width=\"155\" height=\"233\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo by Danielle Voiron in Paris<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I\u2019m grateful that my background in Gestalt therapy has led me to focus  on my relationship to myself. As a practitioner, I try to guide people  toward closer relationships with themselves, rather than encouraging  them to be hung up on whether someone loves them or not. I can tell you  that my growth in relationships is a central focus of my life, and of my  artwork (I am a photographer and fiction writer, at work on another  project called Book of Blue).<\/p>\n<p>Now, how would I sum up my sex life? The first thing to know is that I\u2019m  my own lover first, and every relationship extends from that. I think  that on some level, I consider everyone my lover; I don\u2019t think that  intimacy or sexual awareness is supposed to be reserved only for  \u2018special relationships\u2019. I\u2019m curious about the eroticism of any woman I  am close to, and of some men. I have a love of experimenting and  exploring, though in a clear-headed and ethical way. I tend toward  long-term associations that morph between friend and lover and back.<\/p>\n<p>For me it\u2019s a great pleasure to experience and be aware of the full  spectrum of someone\u2019s sexuality, not just what they experience in their  relationship to me. That is to say, if you\u2019re my lover, or a close  friend, I\u2019m going to be curious about the content of your fantasy life,  how you feel about other people, and what you do, or want to do, with  them. I\u2019ve found this draws me closer to my lovers and is a reminder  that we\u2019re all phases or aspects of one another\u2019s stories on Earth; that  we represent facets of one another\u2019s existence.<\/p>\n<p>That said, I could easily see myself very happily settling into a  monogamous situation, if the right one presented itself. I think that  sex in any form is about being real in the moment, and that would count.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You wrote a controversial sex piece on <\/strong><a href=\"..\/2010\/03\/18\/writing-about-sex-astrology\/\"><strong>Planet Waves<\/strong><\/a><strong> which included the lines, &#8220;I have an idea that masturbation is truly  feminist sex&#8221;; and, &#8220;Men who embrace conscious masturbation can relax  their demand on women as their only possible sexual or emotional outlet,  finding their centre and easing the pressure for sex that many women  feel.&#8221; Is self-sex the future?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If we want some equanimity in our sexual relationships, and our social  relationships, I think that self-sex is the sex of the future. We have  so much we can learn, and let go of, by sharing masturbation  consciously. True, it\u2019s not exactly romantic \u2014 and that is precisely the  point: to call back all those dreamy projections and reveal ourselves  for who we are; and to see others as who they are. Many people are  concerned about the potential adverse consequences of sex, and I think  that they would find a dimension of erotic intimacy opening up through  sharing self-sex \u2014 which is the \u2018safest\u2019 sex there is.<\/p>\n<p>For many, self-sex is the present: it\u2019s the only or most easily  available sex they can find; the most trustworthy; the most frequently  experienced; and for some (though most would not admit it), the most  satisfying sex they have. I suspect a lot of people have taken a step  back from relationships as being too challenging and complicated for the  pleasure they provide. There is a wide middle ground, which is inviting  others into the intimacy we normally share only with ourselves.  Exploring this changes all of our relationships.<\/p>\n<p>For plenty there\u2019s still guilt and misgiving in any form of sex, with  self or other. I would guess that most people feel they would benefit  from some kind of sexual healing process. But where do you go for that?  Well, we go toward ourselves. I would say that most of our \u2018stuff\u2019 in  relationships is actually about our relationships to ourselves, and I  think we know that intuitively.<\/p>\n<p>Self-sex  is the future in terms of a journey of reconciliation with ourselves.  Self-lovemaking can be vivid and passionate in a direct, loving and  forgiving way. Imagine if we entered our sexual relationships from this  space. There is also something basic here about turning jealousy into  something really beautiful, which in a word is compersion. Couples can  learn a lot through masturbating together, including the unfettered  sharing of their fantasies. It&#8217;s a way to cultivate deep erotic empathy.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Did business boom for you when the  banks nearly collapsed? I understand many of your clients are  entrepreneurs and business people. How many people all told read your  horoscopes and astrological reports?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>As the recession has progressed, we\u2019ve been growing steadily as a  company and my work is in greater demand; bless. There seems to be more  of a call for my individual reports and private sessions currently, and a  retreat from an interest in news astrology, though this is cyclical,  and I am aware that we are about to experience a huge burst of curiosity  about \u2018the world\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>The recession takes world affairs and makes them deeply personal. In all  aspects of my work, I emphasize the connection between people and the  world; between our private and our public lives. One of the operating  concepts of Planet Waves is, &#8220;The personal is political,&#8221; and we are  going to be seeing a lot more of this as the 2010-2012 alignment  develops (with a major peak of energy in early June, by the way). Every  aspect of life is going to call us to get more involved, and we will  need the tools do navigate that involvement with clarity. Astrology is  one of those tools, and it leaves room for many others.<\/p>\n<p>I prefer to work with people who strive to make a contribution to the  world. I strongly prefer working with people who have an overdeveloped  sense of responsibility, who have creative vision, and who need to  participate constructively. I am often surprised who these people turn  out to be, which I can tell, in part, from the vacation email replies  that come back from certain subscribers when they are on holiday &#8212;  people I never would have dreamed knew about me, much less pay to read  my writing.<\/p>\n<p>As for numbers, lately I would put my average readership through all  venues at about a quarter-million readers each month. This is a little  daunting, to think that I can influence that many people&#8217;s ideas about  life on a regular basis.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Don&#8217;t you think Sun sign astrology  (the horoscopes in papers and magazines) gives stargazers a bad name?  It&#8217;s just showbiz, right?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If it was just showbiz, it would be easier, and it would require little  in the way of ethics, or study, or talent. Part of the problem is  editors, who strain to tell good astrology writing from bad, or who want  horoscope writers to play down to their audience and give fashion  advice. The very best newspaper astrologers also happen to be the best  trained: rigorously, and gifted with a certain something extra which  cannot be acquired. Writing horoscopes requires precision of both  language and interpretation. Intuition counts for a lot, and vitally, so  does imagination. Then you need to write as fast and prolifically as a  political correspondent at the peak of a campaign, always keeping the  sense of personal contact. Heck it\u2019s so easy, anybody can do it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>And finally Eric, do you believe in an afterlife?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Well, after all this, there better be one! Yet I believe in this life  more than any other and I know we have a purpose for being here &#8212;  humanity collectively, that is. Meanwhile, I\u2019ve noticed that life is  cyclical, based on my experience with nature and also with  reincarnation. After you\u2019ve looked at a few hundred birth charts, and  then a few hundred more, you start to see that people are coming in with  a story, and that story came from somewhere. I have significant  memories certain of my own past lives, and I am conscious of who I was  in some of them. So that addresses part of your question. I\u2019m aware that  there are parallel dimensions to our own, and we do a lot of crossing  back and forth between them. I\u2019ve heard some very moving stories of out  of body experiences and near death experiences.<\/p>\n<p>And an extraordinarily kind astrologer with a soft British accent sometimes whispers in my ear. The answer is yes.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Eric! Thank you so much for your time.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Eric&#8217;s Introduction &#8212; Earlier this year, I was researching Patric Walker, one of the people who inspired me to become an astrologer. There is very little on the Net about Patric (who died in 1995), but I found someone who knew him &#8212; Madame Arcati, a British clairvoyant and gossip columnist. 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