Love affairs can do strange things. We need to expect them to, and observe ourselves in the process. We need to remember that the story is in the dialog; that is, in the quality of communication. The quality you are seeking is on the daring side. That translates to exchanges that are based on understanding yourself in precisely that way that most people avoid. The fear of self-understanding, or the fear of revealing to others that which you're not willing to understand about yourself, is the zone you need to be working in. Hey, you may even want to be working there, but we're talking about the realm of taboo. There is a feeling about your charts of an obvious secret that you don't want to reveal or even discover. As the month progresses, there will come a time that you need to focus on the past, to get beneath an issue that arises. And truth be told, the past is the source and core of all taboos. Here is the clue you're looking for. If passion and anger tend to get confused, or if one arises in the context of the other, I suggest slowing down and having the conversation you need to have, out of bed. This little factor -- well known to sex therapists -- is the key. Talk at the kitchen table or a park, and take some notes.