Category Archives: Polyamory

Relationship Views Evolve, But Bullies Are Eternal

By Maria Padhila There’s a theater / performance art / storytelling project called Mortified that I heard about a couple years ago through a young woman who has become a regional producer for the events. What happens is, you bring … Continue reading

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In Search Of the S&M Siri

By Maria Padhila I just don’t know what to think of these young people today. Do they have it better or worse? Fewer sexual stigmas, yes, but oh my god those student loans. The upshot is I’d like to feed … Continue reading

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Sexual Improv and Sexual Healing

By Maria Padhila Theater started out as magic ritual. In the right hands, with the right practitioners, it still is (Hi, Amanda and Fe!). The San Diego Tantra Theater Troupe is all about the magic. It’s right there in its … Continue reading

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Love, Lies and The Hunger Games

By Maria Padhila To me, there’s no point in talking about what might have been… I still wouldn’t have wanted to marry anyone. I only got engaged to save people’s lives, and that completely backfired. — The Hunger Games: Catching … Continue reading

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How the US uses sexual humiliation for mass political control

Believe me, you don’t want the state having the power to strip your clothes off. And yet, it’s exactly what is happening By Naomi Wolf | The Guardian Editor’s Note: I often write about raising sexual consciousness, and I often … Continue reading

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A Steady Diet of NRE

By Maria Padhila I need to drop 10 pounds. Could I just fall in love, please? You know you’ve thought that once or twice. New love — new relationship energy, as many both in and out of polyamory call it … Continue reading

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Opening and Closing Time

By Maria Padhila On some rare occasions, all of us involved in this triad want the same thing at the same time, and that thing is a nap. We’re all at the busy season — the nature of Issac’s and … Continue reading

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Paying the Troll for Pleasure

By Maria Padhila I indulge in a secret vice, the loathsome practice of which robs me of sleep and peace and time spent in healthy family pursuits. It leaves me with deep, dark circles under my eyes (which are actually … Continue reading

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The Other L-Word

By Maria Padhila “Oh, be quiet! This isn’t about you!” My girlfriend was laughing as she said it, but she had a point, all right. Chris has been seeing someone, and the word “love” has apparently been spoken. I think … Continue reading

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How to Create FOMO* in Five Easy Steps

*(Fear of Missing Out) By Maria Padhila How many times have you settled down on a Saturday evening for a fun game of Sex Toy Bingo with your triad, only to sigh to yourself, “Wow, this would be a lot … Continue reading

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